As you plan gatherings one element you should plan for is the right tableware for the menu, party size, location, and style. You also want to make sure you think about the impact that tableware will have on YOU the hostess.

Growing up in a home that regularly hosted formal family holidays, informal indoor gatherings, and large-scale outside parties I watched my parents navigate the planning process based on these factors. Today in my own home I have built a tableware collection that includes fine china, melamine dish sets, and reserves of paper goods. Sharing some guidelines and advice as you consider what tableware is right for your next gathering.

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Paper Products: Casual and Convenient Gatherings

Paper products are ideal for casual and laid-back gatherings where convenience and ease of cleanup are top priorities. Here are some occasions when paper products are a great choice...

• Outdoor Picnics: When hosting events outdoors, especially in parks or gardens, paper plates, cups, and napkins are practical choices. They are lightweight, disposable, and make cleanup a breeze.

• Children's Parties: Kids' birthday parties and playdates often involve energetic activities and potential spills. Opting for colorful and themed paper products adds a festive touch while minimizing the risk of breakage and allow you to reinforce the party theme without breaking the budget.

• Large-Scale Parties (30+) or Casual Potluck Dinners: For these types of gatherings paper products reduce the stress of washing dishes, allowing everyone to focus on the food and company. These kinds of gatherings are also ones where people graze the food throughout the night and often lose track of their plates, cups, and silverware. Disposable is the way to go to ensure there is a supply ready any time your guests head back to the buffet table.

Melamine: Durable Elegance for Everyday Use

Melamine is a popular choice for those seeking a balance between durability and style. What I love most about melamine is that it is inexpensive, a lasting investment, and SUPER easy to store. You can toss it in a bin and store in an attic, basement, or garage and not have to worry about damage from moisture or breakage. Here's when melamine is the right fit...

• Outdoor Entertaining: When you want a step up from paper but still need durability for outdoor events, melamine is an excellent choice. It is not pretty to serve your guests steak-tips on a paper plate. Melamine also resists chipping and breaking, making it suitable for patio dinners or poolside parties.

• Family Gatherings: For busy families with children and pets, melamine offers a stylish alternative to fine china without sacrificing durability. It can withstand the hustle and bustle of everyday family life while still making an event feel special.

• Casual Dinner Parties: Hosting a relaxed dinner with friends? Melamine dinnerware can provide an elegant touch without the formality of fine china, creating a welcoming atmosphere. You can rinse and toss in the dishwasher then easily stack and store.

Fine China: Elevating Formal Occasions

Fine china adds a touch of sophistication and elegance to formal gatherings. Often our fine china is passed down generation to generation, making it a special way to center family and tradition. The most important considerations for using fine china are guest count (no more than 24 people) and time. Fine china may not be dishwasher safe so make sure you are ready for some serious handwashing and drying. Here are occasions when fine china is the perfect choice...

• Holiday Celebrations: Thanksgiving, Christmas, and other special occasions call for the use of fine china. The luxurious feel and intricate designs of fine china enhance the festive atmosphere and make the meal feel truly special.

• Formal Dinner Parties: When hosting a more formal dinner party, such as an anniversary celebration or a milestone birthday, fine china sets the stage for an elegant and refined dining experience.

Pro Tips for the Hostess: Dinnerware

1. Invest in a nice set of melamine dishes.

2. Build a collection of paper goods that you can easily pull out and store.

3. Utilize safe storage system for fine china.

4. Purchase a second set of silverware.

5. Find high-end plastic cups that you love.